My girlfriend smothered me with a pillow for a few seconds

Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
For like 3 years, shes going to break up with me anyways on Sunday the way she is talking.

She does this thing where she breaks up with me during a tragic event or hard time, this time she said she is done and nothing is working. So I guess let her do it?
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Thats entirely up to u man. But all the same i would still try to get her some help. Even as a friend. She really probably is not thinking very rationally at all right now. Some time and proper meds and she may feel entirely different. But where yall go from here is ur decision first. She def needs inpatient though. Regardless.
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
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Wow. Yeah sounds like u got a hard decision to make. Do u know how to file the papers? Its not difficult. If u go to the crisis center they will pretty much do file them u just gotta describe her behavior. She has to be ruled a danger to herself or others and she did physically attack u. Could easily be argued she tried to kill u. U tell them her history, describe like i did to us the glazed look. She tried to smother u with a pillow. Its better to the harder u sell it though.
 
U said she was going to leave u so it kinda sounds like u still kinda holding on. Thats brave and noble and i get it. But if u can get her stabilized she still has to do the work to stay that way. And that is not on u. This is not on u.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Wow. Yeah sounds like u got a hard decision to make. Do u know how to file the papers? Its not difficult. If u go to the crisis center they will pretty much do file them u just gotta describe her behavior. She has to be ruled a danger to herself or others and she did physically attack u. Could easily be argued she tried to kill u. U tell them her history, describe like i did to us the glazed look. She tried to smother u with a pillow. Its better to the harder u sell it though.
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So this event with the pillow you could tech say this was attempted murder right? Even if it was only for like 5 seconds and she took it off.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
U said she was going to leave u so it kinda sounds like u still kinda holding on. Thats brave and noble and i get it. But if u can get her stabilized she still has to do the work to stay that way. And that is not on u. This is not on u.
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But dont enable her. U may have to adminsister some tough love even after she gets help
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Thats entirely up to u man. But all the same i would still try to get her some help. Even as a friend. She really probably is not thinking very rationally at all right now. Some time and proper meds and she may feel entirely different. But where yall go from here is ur decision first. She def needs inpatient though. Regardless.
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also she didn't tell me about a std she had, waited months to tell me. She did tell me but it came up in casual convo and 2 years late.
 
Bruh yall should probably focus on being her friend right now. This might be hard to hear but she need to focus on her health right now and after the couple years u had u should seriously take some time for u. Yall could be friends and if its real, like really meant to be this wont just survive that, that could be all that saves it. And possibly both yall lives. She sounds very sick man. The shit that comes with a relationship, the expectations and ehat not are going to be a lot of pressure for her. Ur anger while understandable is not going to be healthy for either one of u. U feel me.
 
Her trying to end it is probably her rational side crying out. Like maybe she know she hurting u. If u love her imo the best thing u can do is be her friend first. Make sure she is ok. Fuck the wrongs she did. Yall can deal with that down the line. Honestly maybe just let that shit go. Lifes short man. I am saying my final goodbyes to the best friend i ever had in this world tomorrow breh. We had 21 years. Best years of my life but that shit didnt start out too unlike yall shit. I was just a damn baby and an immature one at that. And if i had someone to tell me what im telling u now, and whats more, if i had been willing to actually listen, i could have spared us a lot of pain early on and gotten to where we ended up a lot sooner and easier. And spared her a lot of undo hurt and pain she neither needed nor deserved. As well as myself.
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
The thing is it was hard to tell if she was joking or not due to it being really quick. But....her face did not look
like she was joking. Had that 50 yard stare glazed over look.
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you need to leave for your own safety. It's all fun and games until your life is on the line and if you defend yourself you still taking the L the way this world works. The signs are there.
 
Let me ask u a serious question. Were yall ever JUST friends or did yall just kinda...fall together? Cause if its the latter then yall fell into a trap from the get go. Its levels and forms of intimacy. That lady is sick. Last thing she needs is a boyfriend and the last thing u need is a sick girlfriend. If u care about her and urself let this girlfriend shit go, try to be her friend and make ur friend get the help they need. Dont be harsh or judgemental treat her like u would anyone else u care for platonically who is ill and like while showing urself all due love.

Dont baby her, dont go backwards. This shit wont get better overnight. The best u can do is get in her ass every time she start slipping and file them papers if necessary. If u wanna have her in ur life these are the least of the boundaries i would set. She needs serious help and is very much not nearly ready to be with anyone. But she do sound like she could use a friend. Thats entirely up to u though and its not gonna be an easy ride in all likelihood.
 
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