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My girlfriend smothered me with a pillow for a few seconds

TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
So yeah. Thats kinda how these things go. That damn friend zone shit. I know it sounds old fashioned but smashing first asking questions later a recipe for disaster. One nighters need to be bought back to smash and dash status.

Folks really need to be friends first before they even consider dating. Start with a solid foundation and work on the building the relationship into something more from the ground up. Modern females "friends" is just a synonym for i want gf priviliges but i just aint tryna fuck. Literally the root of their own despair romantically.

Look if u care about her and urself i really think yall need to dial it back breh. For both yall sake. Yall definitely shouldnt be cohabitating. This chicks antics while she is in the long slow process of healing is going to piss u off. U going to take it out on her. Its going to fuck her up and make healing very difficult. For u both. She shouldnt be talking to any man but a professional.

Of course u cant control her, nor should u try, and u can lead a horse to water, ya feel me.

But im also projecting heavy too. U gone have to kinda listen to make ur own decision here. I just know treating wifey like she was my chick just cause her crazy ass said "ill be ya chick" from jump only lead to pain for us both. I had to treat her like just another one female relative for a while to be able give her the space, love and care she needed to do her own healing so she coule become a proper wife down the line. Shit was no picnic and was probably just dumb luck it even worked out at all.

Im sorry man. Know that cant be what u tryna hear.
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Now that I think of it though, asking someone to move in with you that quick is odd.
 
Him said:
you need to leave for your own safety. It's all fun and games until your life is on the line and if you defend yourself you still taking the L the way this world works. The signs are there.
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Could be worse. I coulda been dead from that pillow and not be typing this.
 
gotta cut that off while there’s no tangible attachments. if y’all had a child you would be cooked and she warned you
 
You know what you need to do. I dont see how guys stay around toxic women. If she's not helping ease the stress of life what good is she ?
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
We were in bed and she put the pillow over me (like suffocating) for a few seconds. She had like a glazed look on her face almost
like dissociative. Has super BPD tendencies like blame shifting on me, tried breaking up with me out of nowhere when I got in a auto accident
last year, always yelling with hissy fits and being caught in lies.

Also told me if I was to ever knock her ass up that she was afraid she would go in postpartum psychosis.
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I'm not gonna lie fam at this point you gonna have to fight that bitch. Don't go out like that.
 
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