My girlfriend smothered me with a pillow for a few seconds

TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Let me ask u a serious question. Were yall ever JUST friends or did yall just kinda...fall together? Cause if its the latter then yall fell into a trap from the get go. Its levels and forms of intimacy. That lady is sick. Last thing she needs is a boyfriend and the last thing u need is a sick girlfriend. If u care about her and urself let this girlfriend shit go, try to be her friend and make ur friend get the help they need. Dont be harsh or judgemental treat her like u would anyone else u care for platonically who is ill and like while showing urself all due love.

Dont baby her, dont go backwards. This shit wont get better overnight. The best u can do is get in her ass every time she start slipping and file them papers if necessary. If u wanna have her in ur life these are the least of the boundaries i would set. She needs serious help and is very much not nearly ready to be with anyone. But she do sound like she could use a friend. Thats entirely up to u though and its not gonna be an easy ride in all likelihood.
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She moved me in on month 2
 
This post is quite alarming. Why are you living together if your are not married? Have you signed a lease together? I think it is very foolish to enter into any type of business agreement with a woman that is not your wife. Very foolish.

Why have you moved in with her? Is it because of the COL in 2025? And you choose fornication over love for yourself? Why are you not asking yourself these tough questions?

Why are you fornicating and cohabitating instead of loving yourself and waiting on God? I am not judging you but I I love you and I hope you figure it out. In my honest opinion you should probably break free and re-establish a new life full of love before you bring another woman into it FULLY committed. If you not married baby all getting physical now it's a wash IMHO. Again, with pure love coli breh.
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
She has not. She is manic and takes like paxil and another mood stabilizer but as far as NPD no one has officially diagnosed her.

She sometimes has no memory of some events like hitting me or saying something really off the cuff but can remember everything else about the day. She also is always in contact with her EX "her friend" she says. All of her exs are crazy according to her except for him.
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She is playing you for a fool, she ain't crazy or psychotic..she is just an abuser. Leave that heffa alone
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
She moved me in on month 2
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So yeah. Thats kinda how these things go. That damn friend zone shit. I know it sounds old fashioned but smashing first asking questions later a recipe for disaster. One nighters need to be bought back to smash and dash status.

Folks really need to be friends first before they even consider dating. Start with a solid foundation and work on the building the relationship into something more from the ground up. Modern females "friends" is just a synonym for i want gf priviliges but i just aint tryna fuck. Literally the root of their own despair romantically.

Look if u care about her and urself i really think yall need to dial it back breh. For both yall sake. Yall definitely shouldnt be cohabitating. This chicks antics while she is in the long slow process of healing is going to piss u off. U going to take it out on her. Its going to fuck her up and make healing very difficult. For u both. She shouldnt be talking to any man but a professional.

Of course u cant control her, nor should u try, and u can lead a horse to water, ya feel me.

But im also projecting heavy too. U gone have to kinda listen to make ur own decision here. I just know treating wifey like she was my chick just cause her crazy ass said "ill be ya chick" from jump only lead to pain for us both. I had to treat her like just another one female relative for a while to be able give her the space, love and care she needed to do her own healing so she coule become a proper wife down the line. Shit was no picnic and was probably just dumb luck it even worked out at all.

Im sorry man. Know that cant be what u tryna hear.
 
xenforo said:
This post is quite alarming. Why are you living together if your are not married? Have you signed a lease together? I think it is very foolish to enter into any type of business agreement with a woman that is not your wife. Very foolish.

Why have you moved in with her? Is it because of the COL in 2025? And you choose fornication over love for yourself? Why are you not asking yourself these tough questions?

Why are you fornicating and cohabitating instead of loving yourself and waiting on God? I am not judging you but I I love you and I hope you figure it out. In my honest opinion you should probably break free and re-establish a new life full of love before you bring another woman into it FULLY committed. If you not married baby all getting physical now it's a wash IMHO. Again, with pure love coli breh.
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no lease it was a house she bought in Jersey
 
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