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My girlfriend smothered me with a pillow for a few seconds

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We were in bed and she put the pillow over me (like suffocating) for a few seconds. She had like a glazed look on her face almost
like dissociative. Has super BPD tendencies like blame shifting on me, tried breaking up with me out of nowhere when I got in a auto accident
last year, always yelling with hissy fits and being caught in lies.

Also told me if I was to ever knock her ass up that she was afraid she would go in postpartum psychosis.
 
Damn bruh. Has she been diagnosed or is this shit like off the cuff? Thats very concerning. Sounds like a little schizophrenia might be in the mix there. Is she taking anything, prescription or otherwise?
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
We were in bed and she put the pillow over me (like suffocating) for a few seconds. She had like a glazed look on her face almost
like dissociative. Has super BPD tendencies like blame shifting on me, tried breaking up with me out of nowhere when I got in a auto accident
last year, always yelling with hissy fits and being caught in lies.

Also told me if I was to ever knock her ass up that she was afraid she would go in postpartum psychosis.
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Fam and you still around the broad? That pussy must be Heaven gated lmaooo

You need to run away and fast
 
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TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Damn bruh. Has she been diagnosed or is this shit like off the cuff? Thats very concerning. Sounds like a little schizophrenia might be in the mix there. Is she taking anything, prescription or otherwise?
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She has not. She is manic and takes like paxil and another mood stabilizer but as far as NPD no one has officially diagnosed her.

She sometimes has no memory of some events like hitting me or saying something really off the cuff but can remember everything else about the day. She also is always in contact with her EX "her friend" she says. All of her exs are crazy according to her except for him.
 
The thing is it was hard to tell if she was joking or not due to it being really quick. But....her face did not look
like she was joking. Had that 50 yard stare glazed over look.
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
She has not. She is manic and takes like paxil and another mood stabilizer but as far as NPD no one has officially diagnosed her.

She sometimes has no memory of some events like hitting me or saying something really off the cuff but can remember everything else about the day. She also is always in contact with her EX "her friend" she says. All of her exs are crazy according to her except for him.
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Yeah those black outs sound like disassociative personality disorder. U should get her some help fast man she may be spiralling and who knows what this "friend" could be feeding her or how its interacting with what she already takes. U should try to get her to go inpatient, of her own free will if possible but its likely u will have to have her involuntarily checked in somewhere. Have u ever filed them type of papers? Its not so bad they usually wont keep her long, just enough to observe as they figure out how to properly medicate her and get her stabilized. How long yall been together and how serious, and what if any family she got? Like decent responsible family brehthren?
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Yeah those black outs sound like disassociative personality disorder. U should get her some help fast man she may be spiralling and who knows what this "friend" could be feeding her or how its interacting with what she already takes. U should try to get her to go inpatient, of her own free will if possible but its likely u will have to have her involuntarily checked in somewhere. Have u ever filed them type of papers? Its not so bad they usually wont keep her long, just enough to observe as they figure out how to properly medicate her and get her stabilized. How long yall been together and how serious, and what if any family she got? Like decent responsible family brehthren?
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yeah she has moments where she is monotone like Daria then others where she is goofy then moments where she is screaming and crying at the same time.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Yeah those black outs sound like disassociative personality disorder. U should get her some help fast man she may be spiralling and who knows what this "friend" could be feeding her or how its interacting with what she already takes. U should try to get her to go inpatient, of her own free will if possible but its likely u will have to have her involuntarily checked in somewhere. Have u ever filed them type of papers? Its not so bad they usually wont keep her long, just enough to observe as they figure out how to properly medicate her and get her stabilized. How long yall been together and how serious, and what if any family she got? Like decent responsible family brehthren?
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For like 3 years, shes going to break up with me anyways on Sunday the way she is talking.

She does this thing where she breaks up with me during a tragic event or hard time, this time she said she is done and nothing is working. So I guess let her do it?

The mom wears the pants in the family and he sleeps in a different room than her. Even has his own room. Other than that they seem like a normal family.
 
Listen bout that inpatient suggest it but DONT push it. If she isnt with it, u only going to aggravate the situation trying to pressure her. Just discreetly go to ur local crisis center and file papers if she dont have any decent responsible family or someone she can trust prepared to deal with this.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Listen bout that inpatient suggest it but DONT push it. If she isnt with it, u only going to aggravate the situation trying to pressure her. Just discreetly go to ur local crisis center and file papers if she dont have any decent responsible family or someone she can trust prepared to deal with this.
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she doesn't think anything is wrong with her unfort
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
For like 3 years, shes going to break up with me anyways on Sunday the way she is talking.

She does this thing where she breaks up with me during a tragic event or hard time, this time she said she is done and nothing is working. So I guess let her do it?
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Thats entirely up to u man. But all the same i would still try to get her some help. Even as a friend. She really probably is not thinking very rationally at all right now. Some time and proper meds and she may feel entirely different. But where yall go from here is ur decision first. She def needs inpatient though. Regardless.
 
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Wow. Yeah sounds like u got a hard decision to make. Do u know how to file the papers? Its not difficult. If u go to the crisis center they will pretty much do file them u just gotta describe her behavior. She has to be ruled a danger to herself or others and she did physically attack u. Could easily be argued she tried to kill u. U tell them her history, describe like i did to us the glazed look. She tried to smother u with a pillow. Its better to the harder u sell it though.
 
U said she was going to leave u so it kinda sounds like u still kinda holding on. Thats brave and noble and i get it. But if u can get her stabilized she still has to do the work to stay that way. And that is not on u. This is not on u.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Wow. Yeah sounds like u got a hard decision to make. Do u know how to file the papers? Its not difficult. If u go to the crisis center they will pretty much do file them u just gotta describe her behavior. She has to be ruled a danger to herself or others and she did physically attack u. Could easily be argued she tried to kill u. U tell them her history, describe like i did to us the glazed look. She tried to smother u with a pillow. Its better to the harder u sell it though.
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So this event with the pillow you could tech say this was attempted murder right? Even if it was only for like 5 seconds and she took it off.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
U said she was going to leave u so it kinda sounds like u still kinda holding on. Thats brave and noble and i get it. But if u can get her stabilized she still has to do the work to stay that way. And that is not on u. This is not on u.
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But dont enable her. U may have to adminsister some tough love even after she gets help
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Thats entirely up to u man. But all the same i would still try to get her some help. Even as a friend. She really probably is not thinking very rationally at all right now. Some time and proper meds and she may feel entirely different. But where yall go from here is ur decision first. She def needs inpatient though. Regardless.
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also she didn't tell me about a std she had, waited months to tell me. She did tell me but it came up in casual convo and 2 years late.
 
Bruh yall should probably focus on being her friend right now. This might be hard to hear but she need to focus on her health right now and after the couple years u had u should seriously take some time for u. Yall could be friends and if its real, like really meant to be this wont just survive that, that could be all that saves it. And possibly both yall lives. She sounds very sick man. The shit that comes with a relationship, the expectations and ehat not are going to be a lot of pressure for her. Ur anger while understandable is not going to be healthy for either one of u. U feel me.
 
Her trying to end it is probably her rational side crying out. Like maybe she know she hurting u. If u love her imo the best thing u can do is be her friend first. Make sure she is ok. Fuck the wrongs she did. Yall can deal with that down the line. Honestly maybe just let that shit go. Lifes short man. I am saying my final goodbyes to the best friend i ever had in this world tomorrow breh. We had 21 years. Best years of my life but that shit didnt start out too unlike yall shit. I was just a damn baby and an immature one at that. And if i had someone to tell me what im telling u now, and whats more, if i had been willing to actually listen, i could have spared us a lot of pain early on and gotten to where we ended up a lot sooner and easier. And spared her a lot of undo hurt and pain she neither needed nor deserved. As well as myself.
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
The thing is it was hard to tell if she was joking or not due to it being really quick. But....her face did not look
like she was joking. Had that 50 yard stare glazed over look.
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you need to leave for your own safety. It's all fun and games until your life is on the line and if you defend yourself you still taking the L the way this world works. The signs are there.
 
Let me ask u a serious question. Were yall ever JUST friends or did yall just kinda...fall together? Cause if its the latter then yall fell into a trap from the get go. Its levels and forms of intimacy. That lady is sick. Last thing she needs is a boyfriend and the last thing u need is a sick girlfriend. If u care about her and urself let this girlfriend shit go, try to be her friend and make ur friend get the help they need. Dont be harsh or judgemental treat her like u would anyone else u care for platonically who is ill and like while showing urself all due love.

Dont baby her, dont go backwards. This shit wont get better overnight. The best u can do is get in her ass every time she start slipping and file them papers if necessary. If u wanna have her in ur life these are the least of the boundaries i would set. She needs serious help and is very much not nearly ready to be with anyone. But she do sound like she could use a friend. Thats entirely up to u though and its not gonna be an easy ride in all likelihood.
 
TheHalfbloodFkaPrince said:
Let me ask u a serious question. Were yall ever JUST friends or did yall just kinda...fall together? Cause if its the latter then yall fell into a trap from the get go. Its levels and forms of intimacy. That lady is sick. Last thing she needs is a boyfriend and the last thing u need is a sick girlfriend. If u care about her and urself let this girlfriend shit go, try to be her friend and make ur friend get the help they need. Dont be harsh or judgemental treat her like u would anyone else u care for platonically who is ill and like while showing urself all due love.

Dont baby her, dont go backwards. This shit wont get better overnight. The best u can do is get in her ass every time she start slipping and file them papers if necessary. If u wanna have her in ur life these are the least of the boundaries i would set. She needs serious help and is very much not nearly ready to be with anyone. But she do sound like she could use a friend. Thats entirely up to u though and its not gonna be an easy ride in all likelihood.
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She moved me in on month 2
 
This post is quite alarming. Why are you living together if your are not married? Have you signed a lease together? I think it is very foolish to enter into any type of business agreement with a woman that is not your wife. Very foolish.

Why have you moved in with her? Is it because of the COL in 2025? And you choose fornication over love for yourself? Why are you not asking yourself these tough questions?

Why are you fornicating and cohabitating instead of loving yourself and waiting on God? I am not judging you but I I love you and I hope you figure it out. In my honest opinion you should probably break free and re-establish a new life full of love before you bring another woman into it FULLY committed. If you not married baby all getting physical now it's a wash IMHO. Again, with pure love coli breh.
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
She has not. She is manic and takes like paxil and another mood stabilizer but as far as NPD no one has officially diagnosed her.

She sometimes has no memory of some events like hitting me or saying something really off the cuff but can remember everything else about the day. She also is always in contact with her EX "her friend" she says. All of her exs are crazy according to her except for him.
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She is playing you for a fool, she ain't crazy or psychotic..she is just an abuser. Leave that heffa alone
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
She moved me in on month 2
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So yeah. Thats kinda how these things go. That damn friend zone shit. I know it sounds old fashioned but smashing first asking questions later a recipe for disaster. One nighters need to be bought back to smash and dash status.

Folks really need to be friends first before they even consider dating. Start with a solid foundation and work on the building the relationship into something more from the ground up. Modern females "friends" is just a synonym for i want gf priviliges but i just aint tryna fuck. Literally the root of their own despair romantically.

Look if u care about her and urself i really think yall need to dial it back breh. For both yall sake. Yall definitely shouldnt be cohabitating. This chicks antics while she is in the long slow process of healing is going to piss u off. U going to take it out on her. Its going to fuck her up and make healing very difficult. For u both. She shouldnt be talking to any man but a professional.

Of course u cant control her, nor should u try, and u can lead a horse to water, ya feel me.

But im also projecting heavy too. U gone have to kinda listen to make ur own decision here. I just know treating wifey like she was my chick just cause her crazy ass said "ill be ya chick" from jump only lead to pain for us both. I had to treat her like just another one female relative for a while to be able give her the space, love and care she needed to do her own healing so she coule become a proper wife down the line. Shit was no picnic and was probably just dumb luck it even worked out at all.

Im sorry man. Know that cant be what u tryna hear.
 
xenforo said:
This post is quite alarming. Why are you living together if your are not married? Have you signed a lease together? I think it is very foolish to enter into any type of business agreement with a woman that is not your wife. Very foolish.

Why have you moved in with her? Is it because of the COL in 2025? And you choose fornication over love for yourself? Why are you not asking yourself these tough questions?

Why are you fornicating and cohabitating instead of loving yourself and waiting on God? I am not judging you but I I love you and I hope you figure it out. In my honest opinion you should probably break free and re-establish a new life full of love before you bring another woman into it FULLY committed. If you not married baby all getting physical now it's a wash IMHO. Again, with pure love coli breh.
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no lease it was a house she bought in Jersey
 
Shawn Michaels pilled up said:
no lease it was a house she bought in Jersey
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So you're living with this woman who is not your wife, and the house is completely in her name? She is also putting hands on you? Idk brother this seems like a recipe for a lot of nonsense and unnecessary stuff that can happen. Your playing with a lot but I guess you know your limits.

What if she does it again? What if you end up losing it on her? Not good
 
xenforo said:
So you're living with this woman who is not your wife, and the house is completely in her name? She is also putting hands on you? Idk brother this seems like a recipe for a lot of nonsense and unnecessary stuff that can happen. Your playing with a lot but I guess you know your limits.

What if she does it again? What if you end up losing it on her? Not good
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That is true. Put all my eggs in this basket. Nothing is in writing.
 
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